Trauma Symptoms
There are numerous emotional reactions that a person who suffers
a traumatic event may experience. The emotional reactions can last from hours
to weeks and
certain emotions can be repeated and appear very confusing.
Shock Stage: This
stage usually happens first and can last a few hours or longer. During this
time, you may feel immobile,
and things may
not seem real or may feel as if they are happening to someone else. You may
have difficulty remembering how
to do things or concentrating on a minor job. You may deny that
the trauma occurred and "force" yourself to act normal.
Impact Stage:
This follows the shock
stage and can last for a few days or even weeks. The first sign is usually
a sense of anxiety or
nervousness which you cannot identify, but may cause you to feel uptight, jittery
or scared. Anger can also occur - anger towards the person who caused the trauma,
the people
who were there and didn't help, the police, or friends who don't understand.
Intense anger or rage and thoughts of revenge can arise. Frequently, victims
of trauma begin to
second-guess their behavior during the event. They may think, "What if
I had done this or that?" "What ifs" tend to confuse us about
what really happened and can lead to feelings of guilt, helplessness, anger
and sadness.
Self doubts can lead to
depression, which involves feelings of worthlessness or guilt. In addition,
sudden crying spells, feeling helpless and sleeping problems may frequently
occur. Some people feel like
they are on a roller coaster and go from being very angry to very sad in a
matter of minutes.
Resolution Stage: This stage may last from weeks
to months. An important step is recognizing that you probably did the right thing during
the trauma and the responsibility for the trauma is not yours. You can learn that it is
normal human behavior to be frightened, angry and sad when experiencing trauma, and that
it's okay to feel that way. Talking about your feelings and stopping self-blaming thoughts
are also very helpful in accepting and growing from the unfortunate event.
You will always remember the trauma. Sometimes people or things which
remind you of the trauma can trigger a flood of the feelings described above. Talk about
these feelings with friends, family or people who were there during the trauma. Sharing
your thoughts will ease your feelings of helplessness and confusion.
Stress after a trauma is common. If you have a medical condition
and it appears to be getting worse, contact your family physician or local
health clinic for
assistance.
The following information
sheets (in Adobe) provide helpful suggestions for victims.
Trauma
Reactions
Helping Children Cope with Crisis
Suggestions for Choosing a Therapist
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